5 key life lessons out of 35 years.

If you’ve spent most of your life making sure everyone around you is okay, checking in, showing up, people-pleasing, and overextending, then you already know what burnout tastes like. You know what it feels like to be the go-to girl for everyone except yourself.

No one’s going to swoop in and save you. No one’s going to hand you the life you want. And if you keep waiting for someone to pick you, to validate your worth, or give you permission to go after what you want, you’ll wake up in a decade wondering why you didn’t choose you sooner.

Enter: your Selfish Era.

The ‘Selfish Era’ isn’t about ego it’s about alignment. It’s about becoming the version of yourself who knows she’s the main character and finally starts acting like it.

This is your 4-step roadmap to start living like the woman you were always meant to become.

Learn to work with the universe.

There’s a lot to learn from solitude, find out how.

First of all, don’t save this for later. Read it now.

Previously a self-proclaimed ‘Procrastination Queen’, I understood wanting to get something done, but waiting until the last minute more than anyone, and how it affects many people, and the difficulty in overcoming it.

You don’t put things off because you don’t care. You put them off because the idea of doing it in that moment makes your brain uncomfortable.

The problem was my ‘in the moment’ mindset was becoming a lifestyle, one I didn’t want to identify with any longer. I had shit to do that couldn’t wait. I needed to operate from a different system.

In this article, I’m sharing five real ways to cut to the chase and get moving, interrupt the loop and confront resistance head-on to start doing what moves the needle.

What’s your purpose? What light’s you up?

Anti-list and journaling? Gratitude can still be a part of your lifestyle.

Find out what is stopping you from achieving your goals.