THE READING ROOM
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All articles for 2025 are now published.
The Reading Room will reopen with Article No. 45 on Sunday, 11 January 2026.
Until then, members are invited to revisit every article, guide, essay, reflection, and archive piece from the past year.
Both Residents and Private Members have full access to the Reading Room, including the most-read pieces and the ones that never made it to Instagram.
We’ll see you in January with a fresh new collection of reading materials to support your transformation.
How To EMBODY The Best Version of Yourself
You don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are.
How To Use The ‘Lucky Girl Mindset’ to Bring You Everything You Want
Find out how lucky you really are.
Is Manifestation Leading You Astray? Here’s Why It’s Time to Rethink Your Approach
I’m sure on your way over to this article you might have been slightly confused, because if you have been a part of the Coffee Moon community for even a short while, you will know I am totally on board with the idea of manifesting.
And this article isn’t to say anything against it, but more to touch on what’s missing when it comes to the subject of it.
So, why is the manifestation movement a problem?
Well, despite wholeheartedly believing in the concept of manifestation (especially because I have seen it work in my own life)
I cannot help but notice there are many parts to manifesting which are going unspoken of.
We are taught to visualise, think positively, state affirmations and just believe it will happen.
But, manifesting is far from an A-B plan, there are a few extra details to this concept that are not often spoken of, maybe self-help experts want to keep it simple by not overwhelming their student with a lot to think about, or maybe if it gets too complex it takes the magic away, or perhaps they genuinely don’t know and therefore cannot teach it.
And despite the ever-evolving manifesting movement and all of its resources, I can relate to why you may still feel stuck and unable to make your dreams comes true.
In this article, I’m going to reveal the missing pieces and what you really need to know when manifesting on purpose.
How To Know If They’re The Right One for You
Between red pill podcasts, disposable dating and divorce being at high of 50%, when we finally meet someone, it’s hard to decide how we know if they’re right for us.
Relationships take work, a conscious effort, and after the initial stages of dating and infatuation otherwise known as the ‘honeymoon’ period, reality starts to set in.
It’s at this stage where the rose-tinted glasses are off and you are able to start seeing the relationship for what it is, and not just what you hope it will be.
Love isn’t just about grand gestures or Instagram-worthy moments. It’s about the quiet support, the deep conversations, and the way someone makes you feel in your day-to-day life.
If you’re wondering whether your relationship is truly healthy and built to last, here are eight signs to look for.
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